Ive done a short podcast to introduce myself- mainly testing the functionality of creating a podcast and uploading to iTunes.
You can listen to my first short attempt at podcasting by clicking “play” button below.
This is one of my favourite sites for learning basic shibari :
\http://www.japanrope.com/tutorial.html
Step By Step Tutorial on basic Shibari Knots:
http://www.bdsm-chicago.com/cram/BASE_basicjapaneserope.html
I LOVE role playing. I am making a sexual check list to send partner and may post. One of the things on list I am putting is role playing.
I have been thinking of different ideas to to try.
1. Head master and student.. will have him catch me touching my private areas and then show me different ways to touch myself. There will also be punishments involved ( I hope!) as well as lessons on how to please a man.
2. Prison Guard and Prisoner. Could play this as being caught with contraband, being strip searched.. late at night and locked in cell alone and helpless or super horny and no sex for months begging to get it. Lot of ways this one could go.
3. Prostitute and Client. This could be fun. Client can demand anything he wants and I name price and give it to him . We could use monopoly money. I could be high class escort , a specialty fetish or be low end crack whore who will do anything.
4. Pirate and virgin prisoner/ captive . Might be hard to pull off but just thinking of all that rope gives me the shivers 
5. Doctor/ patient. I could go in for a very special exam. A hundred years ago women would go to doctor for “release” He may also like to for me to play nurse. will have to see.
These are songs to FUCK to..
Not music for making love to ..
not songs to make out to .
not romantic music to lose your virginity to..
those are other posts for another girl on another blog to make .. .. these tunes where you get dirty and nasty and fuck your brains out.
Nine Inch Nails - Closer also known as Halo 9 ( I want to fuck you like an animal….)
from album The Downward Spiral
Listen to “Closer” from The Downward Spiral
MARRS - Pump up the Volume- yes bit of a blast from the past. This was my standard blow job music for a long long time. Gave it ummm ..a whirl recently adn YES it holds up. Give it a listen and you see what I mean. Perfect.
Listen to Pump Up the Volume
Great for nasty dark rough sex. The Cure is perfect back round for times when you feel sinister and want to bring out the ropes and leather.
Listen to The Cure’s Disintegration
Another good song to have sex to …. after a night on the town sex, after a wedding night sex, great make up sex, yep that’s twistedListen to Keith Sweats Twisted,
Chris Issac’s Wicked Game, a bottle of wine and a afternoon of one on one time listen to Chris Issac,
Another best song to have sex to when you are looking for angry, make up sex, ” I like your pants around your feet” ” “I like the freckles on your chest” ” And i like the way you still say please while your looking up at me”. A heavy beat and loud guitar riffs make this a must have song for the evening. Guaranteed to get the emotions rolling, listen to Figured You Out,
The Best of Best American Erotica 2008: 15th Anniversary Edition
I am reading the above book Best of Best American Erotica 2008: 15th Anniversary Edition and it is excellent. Aside from the hot stories the writing is excellent. I have just started delving into the world of erotica and Susie Bright is considered to be a top notch editor- and after reading this I can see why.
Don’t expect Penthouse forum style type writing- think X-rated O. Henry short stories. I am enjoying them much more than I thought.
This is the BEST cock ring EVER. Normally my husband runs for the hills when I haul something like this out- but he was eager to try it. It works very well and for woman you cannot reach orgasm through intercourse this will be enough to get you “over” the top.
Its pricey but well worth it!
It looks good- not weird or too bondage-y.
I started this blog because I seem to be giving advice to my friends and family about their relationships.
I am very open minded and non-judgmental. I have a great sex life and have dabbled in just about about everything.
I met my husband on an online dating site 12 years ago and have helped MANY friends find what they were looking for on online dating sites- whether it be ongoing casual sex, or serious long term relationship. I can help you avoid common mistakes many people make when they first sign up.
I am bisexual and have had relationships with women. I am an avid user of sex toys and hope I can share my insight and that of close friends on what are the best sex toys and ones that are a waste of time.
If I don’t know the answer to something- I will find out or go to some one who does have the answer.
I plan to have regular podcasts on various topics- my new favorite sex toys, why and how I got a nipple piercing, and how I took my vanilla sex life to the next level.
I will also have regular guests bloggers and podcasters joining me .
Have a question about dating? Online dating or Sex? Go ahead and ask!
